Wow that's insane. As I build my business, I'm taking on more childcare and housework than my husband, who has more work and income right now. BUT doing this is slowing my progress, since I have less time to devote to building my business. I've been telling myself that once I reach a certain income level, we'll split everything more evenly, but.... since he has tenure and is salaried, I wonder if he should be the one taking time for childcare and housework NOW? Have I fallen for the traditional way of thinking?